OK it’s time date yourself. Yes, I’m talking a full blown courtship. A butterfly flutter, gut punching love affair with yourself! An affair of epic proportions that will set your soul on fire. But all for you and by you!!! It’s time for you to let go and truly become acquainted with the person you are toeday and appreciate all of the nuances and triumphmant aspects that make you, you!

As the Miley song goes “I can buy myself flowers, and I can hold my own hand” it’s time to give yourself flowers and time to floss and revel in your own beauty, grace and strength.

It’s time to wake up in the morning and not wait for anyone to tell you you’re beautiful, handsome or capabable and just tell yourself! Look in the mirror like Lizzo and say it’s “Bad Bitch O’Clock!!

With your extreme beauty, strength, good looks, intelligence and confidence you don’t need permission to compliment yourself. Don’t wait for someone to validate you or make you feel a certain way…. you know what kind of comedy you like, so put one on and laugh until your side hurts!!! You know what kind of music you love.. so enjoy blasting music as high as the volume will turn and let yourself go!!!

Maybe enjoy some much needed me time by grabbing your favorite author and a snack of choice and curl up in a cozy spot and indulge your self with a great read. Get lost in that fabulous novel or write one of your own! The point is take the time to date your self. You know all of the things that you want to do and enjoy, so whether someone asked you to join them or not you are worth it so enjoy yourself, love yourself, and indulge yourself, date yourself!!! You are truly something special and a pleassure to be around.

Happy Holiday Rising